A Father
Parshas Ki Sisa
Posted on March 8, 2023 (5783) By Rabbi Yochanan
Zweig | Series: Rabbi
Zweig on the Parsha | Level: Intermediate Beginner
“Hashem passed before him
and proclaimed…”(34:6)
After shattering the
Tablets in reaction to witnessing Bnei Yisroel worshipping the Golden Calf,
Moshe prayed on their behalf and saved them from destruction. Hashem then agreed to give Bnei Yisroel a second
set of Tablets. When Moshe ascended the mountain to receive these Tablets, Hashem taught Moshe the text of the Thirteen
Attributes of Mercy, a prayer which invokes Hashem’s mercy and reassures us
that repentance is always possible.
The verse states that Hashem passed before Moshe and proclaimed the
Thirteen Attributes. From the fact that Hashem passed
before Moshe, the Talmud derives that He wrapped Himself in a
tallis like one who leads the congregation, and showed Moshe the order of the
prayers.[1] Why was it necessary for Hashem to
wrap Himself in a tallis and go through all the motions of the prayer in order
to teach Moshe the text of the prayer?
Hashem was sending Moshe a message that this prayer will
never go unanswered. The reason for this phenomenon is that it invokes the love
that Hashem feels for his children. Much the same way
as a father’s concern for his child’s welfare is even greater than the concern
that child has for his own well-being, Hashem is
revealing to Moshe that His concern for Bnei Yisroel transcends their own, to
the extent that He too, figuratively, prays for their well-being.
From Rags
to Riches
Parshas Ki Sisa
Posted on March 11, 2020 (5780) By Rabbi Naftali
Reich | Series: Legacy | Level: Beginner
Parshas Ki Sisa describes
the tragic downfall of the Jewish people at the very pinnacle of their
spiritual achievement.
The people encamped as one
around Har Sinai in their zeal to receive the Torah. Hashem’s voice thundered
off the mountain tops, proclaiming the Aseres Hadibros, the Ten Commandments,
and designating the Jews as His chosen people for accepting His eternal
covenant.
From the lofty heights of
those wonderful intoxicating days, the Jewish people spiraled downwards. Moshe
had ascended to Heaven to bring down the Luchos, the stone Tablets, and in his
absence, the nation had strayed far. The Torah describes how, only forty days
later, the people embraced the worship of the Golden Calf and were dancing
around it in wild abandon.
Hashem revealed to Moshe in Heaven exactly what was
taking place down below, and instructed him to go down and take control of the
tragic scene. Moshe grabbed the Tablets and made his way down the mountain. He
was greeted by Yehoshua and by the crescendo of noise emanating from the camp.
As he approached the camp
and saw the people dancing to musical instruments around the golden calf, Moshe
took the miraculous Tablets of stone and smashed them at the foot of the
mountain.
The commentaries ask why
Moshe waited until he descended the mountain to shatter the Luchos. Did he not
believe Hashem when He told him the Jews were worshiping
a golden calf?
The Tablets transcended
the laws of nature; the letters penetrated the stone through and through, yet
one could read the holy text on them from either side. The Tablets were a
reflection of the divine connection that the Jewish people had with their
creator-but which, by worshiping the golden calf, they had lost. The Jewish
people, after this serious breach of faith, were no longer worthy of being the
recipients of the Luchos. So why did Moshe wait? Why didn’t he leave them in
Heaven instead of smashing them at the foot of the mountain?
The commentaries explain
that although Moshe knew beyond any doubt that the Jewish people had worshiped
the golden calf. Yet he rationalized that it was surely just a temporary lapse,
not done willfully or with enthusiasm. Perhaps they had succumbed to their base
urges momentarily and could still be restored to their previous lofty stature.
But when he saw the people
brazenly dancing around the calf, with musical accompaniment and great gusto
and excitement, he realized the truth: they could never again be worthy of
those heavenly Tablets.
It is one thing to abandon
G-d out of fleeting temptation while all the while experiencing pangs of guilt.
It is another to abandon Him without compunction, with relish and merriment.
After such debasement, the disconnect is complete and absolute.
When not acting harmoniousness
with the inner vibrations of our conscience, we often feel stirrings of guilt
and remorse. We may wonder why we need to be plagued with misgivings and
confusion about our behavior. Why can’t we feel whole and happy with what we
are doing?
In truth, Jewish guilt is
a gift from Hashem. It doesn’t allow us to re-define our
priorities and our character, based on our “fall from grace.” That little voice
inside of us that is telling us we shouldn’t be here, we shouldn’t be doing
this, this is not me-is making sure that our substandard actions do not define
our essence. It is ensuring that we regain our grip and give genuine expression
to our innermost aspirations.
Wishing you an inspiring Shabbos.
The Oreo
Cookie
Parshas Ki Sisa
Posted on February 17, 2022 (5782) By Rabbi
Label Lam | Series: Dvar
Torah | Level: Beginner
And all the people
stripped themselves of the golden earrings that were on their ears and brought
them to Aaron. He took [them] from their hand[s], fashioned it with an
engraving tool, and made it into a molten calf, upon which they said: “These
are your gods, O Israel, who have brought you up from the land of Egypt!” (Shemos 32:3-4)
The building of the Golden
Calf is one of the most tragic events and destructive episodes in all of Jewish
History. We are still mopping up the fallout from what occurred just 40 days
after the most glorious happening in all of human history, Matan Torah -the
Giving of the Torah on Mount Sinai.
The question is why is it
related to us in the Torah in this particular place. We are in the midst of a
long and detailed discussion about the construction of the Mishkan. For 2 and ½
Parshios that is the dominant theme. Then suddenly the tragedy of the Golden
Calf is spelled out in living color and then for another 2 and ½ Parshios we return
to our detailed discussion of the construction of the Mishkan.
An additional factor to
consider is that chronologically, the building of the Mishkan postdated the
building of the Golden Calf. The order is inverted. We should first have read
first about the Golden Calf and then about the Mishkan. In fact, the Mishkan
was the Tikun, the cleanup, the active demonstration of Teshuva to repair the
damage done by the Golden Calf.
What can we learn from the
peculiar positioning of this narrative?
I often find myself
engaged in something I call, “spiritual reverse engineering”. If I discover an
idea that seems to be an undeniable truth, then I go into the search mode to
see if I can find a source for it in the Torah. For example, one of “The 7
Habits of Highly Effective People”, in Stephen Covey’s bestselling book is, “If
you want to be heard, then listen”. It makes a load of sense on many levels.
Let us say that someone
barges into his boss’s office and demands, “I need a giant SUV, 6 new suits, a
private secretary, and a platinum credit card with no limit and a raise in
salary.” The boss will likely be pointing toward the door before he is finished.
He should rather step out,
recalibrate, and enter again with ears open. He just might ask, “Sir, what is
your most expansive vision for this company?” After listening well, he could
commit himself to the boss’s mission and say, “I want to be your east coast
guy. I want your product in every store on the eastern seaboard. I need a giant
SUV, 6 new suits, a private secretary, and a platinum credit card with no limit
and a raise in salary.” Now he has the boss’s ear and he is more likely to have
his requisites met because he listened first and only then did he request.
Maybe that’s the wisdom in
the strategy of placing the SHEMA before the Shemona Esrei. We enter prayer
with our ears open, “SHEMA Yisrael… Love HASHEM … with
all your heart …soul and might… (I am your east coast guy) Now, this is what I
need to do your bidding. If you want to be heard then listen!
For years I have been
arming my teachers with a Primer on PTA to ready them to meet parents. One of
the bullet point items is, “If you must share some unflattering information
about a student with his parents, then employ the Oreo Cookie approach.
Start with a complement,
and then gently deliver the difficult news and conclude with a complement
again. Surgery finished! He’s a great kid with loads of energy. Sometimes he
disrupts the class. If we can help him to channel that energy then I have no
doubt he will accomplish great things. He’s a super kid!
HASHEM sandwiched the sin of the Golden Calf in the
middle of the construction of the Mishkan to let us know how truly-good we are
and how great we can be, while rebuking us strongly. So, there we have it right
there in our Holy Torah a humongous hint to the Oreo Cookie!