Saturday, June 29, 2019


Piece of Cake

Parshas Shlach

Posted on June 7, 2018 (5778) By Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky | Series: Drasha | Level: Beginner

 

It was not a good scenario. The twelve spies returned from their forty-day sojourn to the Land of Canaan and ten of them were not happy campers.

They left as an enthusiastic and united crew, selected by Moshe for what should have been an easy mission of assurance — confirming what they were already told by their forebears, as well as the Almighty — Eretz Yisrael is a beautiful land that flows with milk and honey. Instead, the only two who had anything positive to say about the land of Israel, were Calev and Yehoshua. The rest of the spies claimed that the land was not good and that there were dangerous giants living there who would crush them. And now, in the face of the derogatory, inflammatory and frightening remarks that disparaged the Promised Land, Calev and Yehoshua were left to defend it.

It was too late. The ten evil spies had stirred up the negative passions of a disheartened nation. The people wanted to return to Egypt. But the two righteous men, Yehoshua and Calev, tried to persuade them otherwise.

The first and most difficult task facing them was to get the Children of Israel to listen to them. The Torah tells us: “They spoke to the entire assembly of the Children of Israel, saying, “The Land that we passed through, to spy it out — the Land is very, very good.

If Hashem desires us, He will bring us to this Land and give it to us, a Land that flows with milk and honey. But do not rebel against Hashem! You should not fear the people of the Land, for they are our bread. Their protection has departed from them; Hashem is with us. Do not fear them!” (Numbers 14:7-9).

What did they mean by saying that the giants were “our bread”? Did they mean that the children of Israel will eat them like bread? Why bread of all things?

A story that circulated during the 1930s told of Yankel, a Jewish immigrant from the Ukraine who made his livelihood selling rolls on a corner in lower Manhattan. He was not an educated man. With poor eyesight and a hearing problem, he never read a newspaper or listened to the radio. He would daven, say Tehillim, learn a bit of Chumash, and bake his rolls. Then he would stand on the side of the road and sell his fresh-baked delicious smelling rolls.

“Buy a roll, mister?” he would ask passersby, the majority of them would gladly oblige with a generous purchase. Despite his simple approach, Yankel did well. He ordered a larger oven and increased his flour and yeast orders. He brought his son home from college to help him out. Then something happened. His son asked him, “Pa, haven’t you heard about the situation with the world markets? There are going to be great problems soon. We are in the midst of a depression!” The father figured that his son’s economic forecast was surely right. After all, his son went to college whereas he himself did not even read the papers. He canceled the order for the new oven and held s for more flour, took down his signs and waited. Sure enough with no advertisement and no inventory, his sales fell overnight. And soon enough Yankel said to his son. “You are right. We are in the middle of a great depression.”

Bread is the staple of life, but it also is the parable of faith. Our attitude toward our bread represent our attitude toward every challenge of faith. If one lives life with emunah p’shutah, simple faith, then his bread will be sufficient to sustain him. The customers will come and he will enjoy success. It is when we exaggerate the bleakness of the situation through the eyes of the economic forecasters, the political pundits, or the nay sayers who believe in the power of their predictions and give up hope based on their mortal weaknesses, then one might as well close shop.

Yehosua and Calev told the people that these giants are no more of a challenge than the demands of our daily fare. They are our bread. And as with our daily fare, our situation is dependent totally on our faith.

If we listen to the predictions of the forecasters and spies, we lose faith in the Almighty and place our faith in the powerless. However, by realizing that the seemingly greatest challenges are the same challenges of our daily fare — our bread — the defeat of even the largest giants will be a piece of cake.

Good Shabbos

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A Professional Jockey

Parshas Shlach

Posted on June 7, 2018 (5778) By Rabbi Naftali Reich | Series: Legacy | Level: Beginner

 

The bulk of this week’s Torah portion is devoted to the tragic story of the spies who reconnoitered the land of Israel in preparation for the nation’s entry into the Promised Land. The consequences of their damaging report were to be felt for the next 40 years, during which the entire generation was punished, and restricted from entering the land. Only the youth together with the next generation were able to realize the nation’s dream.

The Torah portion concludes with three seemingly unconnected mitzvos that were given to the Jewish people. The first details the various rituals that were to accompany all guilt and sin offerings in the Bais Hamikdash. It was necessary to bring a flour offering and a wine libation with each sacrifice in order for it to be efficacious. Secondly, the Jewish people were instructed to tithe their dough each time they make bread, and to gift a portion of the dough to the kohain. Thirdly, they were instructed with the mitzvah of tzitzis, ensuring that the four corners of their clothes were adorned with the strings and knots that were to remind them of their Heavenly connection.

What is the connection between these three seemingly disparate mitzvos, and why were they given to the Jewish people immediately following the sin of their heeding the spies’ false reports concerning the Land of Israel?

The commentaries explain that the spies were of towering spiritual greatness, but also struggled with a fundamental weakness-a fear of entering the land and having to trade an openly miraculous existence for a life governed by natural forces.

In the wilderness, their every step was guided by an open manifestation of Hashem’s protective “hand.” They were led with a pillar of fire at night and a cloud of glory during the day. They ate manna from heaven; their clothing grew along with them, and the Divine intervention in their daily lives afforded them a unique and intimate connection with their Creator. They knew all this would drastically change upon their entry into the land, where they would transition into a material life, engaging the material elements.

They were going to have to till the soil with the trust that the earth would yield forth its produce. They would have to leave their homes each festival to ascend to Jerusalem, trusting that no external enemy would seize the opportunity to capitalize on the country’s vulnerable borders.

The spies were afraid that the nation was not up to the task. So they portrayed the land in material terms, amplifying the daunting challenge of engaging the material hurdles that lay ahead. They wanted to remain in the secure spiritual incubator that surrounded them in the wilderness. The nation paid dearly for not standing up to the tough challenges of life.

In truth, our essential life’s challenge is just that: to be engaged in a material world and to harness it to the physical, while not fearing constant failure. There is always the opportunity of a sin offering with which to repair ourselves when we have erred. We are instructed to reengage the most physical and material elements, wine and food, symbolized by the rituals accompanying the sacrifices, and sublimate them to the service of the Divine.

We are instructed to make proper use of our clothing, symbolized by the laws of tzitzis, that portray material success and represent the image of status and beauty. Our clothes protect us from the elements. Yet we understand that their deeper purpose is to connect the dots and recognize that all the gifts and bounty in life flow from the Divine source. We are not to fear failure for even if we slip, we can always return home.

A student of the saintly Yesod Ha’avodah complained bitterly to his teacher, “Rebbe, I keep slipping and succumbing to temptation and desire. It all seems so futile, I don’t have the strength or courage to rise above my life’s challenges.”

The Yesod Ha’avodah responded, “I once saw a professional jockey riding his magnificent stallion. I asked him, “Does the horse ever throw you off?” ” Of course,” he replied, “even the most experienced horse rider is going to be thrown.”

“So what do you do when the horse throws you?” I asked him. “I jump back on as fast as I can!” he responded. “If not, the horse will run away and I’ll be left with nothing.”

The message of the portion is clear. Like the spies of the wilderness, we are all sent to the wilderness represented by the material world, where we are to spy out the presence of G-d amidst the distractions, temptations and moral pitfalls of our material environment. Our job is to stay on cue with our mission and seek out our Creator in creation, by overcoming the challenges that confront us. The stakes are extremely high. Success guarantees our entry into the Promised Land. Aborting our mission, on the other hand, may force us to take a long, circuitous route home.

May we take a lesson from the failure of the long-ago spies and arm ourselves with the necessary spiritual tools to achieve our goals.

Wishing you a wonderful Shabbos.

Rabbi Naftali Reich Text Copyright © 2012 by Rabbi Naftali Reich and Torah.org.

Rabbi Reich is on the faculty of the Ohr Somayach Tanenbaum Education Center.

 

 

Errors

Parshas Shlach

Posted on June 13, 2014 (5774) By Rabbi Berel Wein | Series: Rabbi Wein | Level: Beginner

The fundamental issue raised in this week’s parsha is how could so many wise and ostensibly pious leaders of Israel make such a fundamental error in vision and judgment and thereby condemn them and their constituents to death and ignominy? All of the commentators to Torah from the Talmud and Midrash forward in history have attempted to unravel this mystery for us.

Various theories, each one correct in its own view, have been advanced to deal with this difficult issue. Yet, as is the case so many times in trying to analyze human behavior and thought, after all of the answers are considered and accepted, the question still remains to trouble us. And that in itself is perhaps one of the main lessons of this sad narrative of the Torah.

Human beings are prone to error, even great and noble human beings. Man proposes but only G-d disposes. Rashi, based on Midrash, comments that even Moshe misunderstood the situation and sent the leaders of the tribes to spy out the land even though the Lord had never specifically told him to do so and left the final decision to do so to his judgment.

Life is usually not so much a comedy of errors as it is a tragedy of errors. And many times in history we can easily note that great people are also prone to make great errors of judgment and policy. So was it in First Temple times with the kings of Judah and Israel and so was it certainly in Second Temple times even with the descendants of the righteous Hasmoneans. And the story of our people in exile is strewn with erroneous messianism and bad policy decisions. Such is life and human folly.

We cannot live without leadership and direction, opinion and advice. But we should always be aware that human beings by definition are not omniscient and all knowing. The gift of prophecy no longer resides with our community. Because of this, caution is always advisable in matters of trust of others. The Psalmist cautions us not to trust the great, generous, noble and mighty blindly for they too are only mortal and subject to the decay of dust.

Another important lesson that appears here in the parsha is that the majority opinion is not always the correct one. Calev and Yehoshua dissented from their colleagues. The Jewish people disregarded their words and followed the overwhelming majority verdict regarding the Land of Israel.

The strength of the survival of the Jewish people throughout the ages has been its ability to dissent from majority opinions and ruling cultures. Cultures change and opinions shift with time and circumstances. But G-dly truth never wavers and changes. Democracy may represent the will of the majority. But even democracy is never infallibly right on major crucial issues.

The Torah serves as a brake against the tyranny of the majority. It provides a standard by which events and opinions can be judged and measured. Calev and Yehoshua will survive and lead the Jewish people into the Land of Israel. The other nobles and leaders, the wise men and naysayers, the majority and the politically correct will fade away and die in the desert.

Shabat shalom

Rabbi Berel Wein

 

Saturday, June 22, 2019


Bad Mood

Parshas Behaaloscha

Posted on June 19, 2019 (5779) By Rabbi Berel Wein | Series: Rabbi Wein | Level: Beginner

 

In many respects this is the saddest chapter that appears in the Torah. The Jewish people, having successfully been released from Egyptian slavery and arriving at Mount Sinai and accepting the sacredness of God’s Torah, they then embark on the building of the Tabernacle. They are then able to successfully complete that project and are ready to undertake the final mission that they are charged with in the desert of Sinai – entry into the land of Israel, its conquest and settlement.

Here, on the threshold of victory and fulfillment, the whole project begins to unravel. The father-in-law of Moshe, Yitro, deserts them for reasons which the text of the Torah does not expand upon. Then the people begin to complain about the food – miraculous as it was – that is available to them in the desert and they complain about G-d and, naturally, about Moshe as well.

When people are in a bad mood, there is no way they can be satisfied, no matter what. We all know that if we come home after a bad day at the office and a terrible commute and enter our homes in such a mood, then whatever delicious dinner may have been prepared for us tastes like ashes in our mouths.

We are always prisoners of our psyche. The Jewish people were afraid of having to enter the land of Israel and to somehow build the nation state on their own, even though they are promised, in fact guaranteed, divine aid. They are in a bad mood, so the food is not good, and Moshe appears to them to be the wrong man for the wrong job.

The mood eventually spreads even to the brother and sister of Moshe. Inexplicably, his beloved sister Miriam who saved him from the ravages of the Nile River when he was an infant and who rallied the women of Israel to his leadership after the miracle of the splitting of the sea at Yam Suf, now speaks critically about him.

His brother Aaron, who came out of Egypt to greet and strengthen him at the beginning of his mission to free the Jewish people from the bondage of Egypt, now also joins Miriam in criticism. They are reflective of the mood of the people. When such a mood exists, nothing is good, and no one is above criticism no matter how unjustified that criticism may be.

This mood will eventually result in the debacle of the spies that will dissuade the Jewish people from even attempting to fulfill their G-d-given mission of settling in the land of Israel. There really is no accounting for human moods. In fact, one of the great struggles of life is simply to overcome the moods that come over us. Most times external frustrations and un-important things cause these behaviors.

The great men of the Chasidic and Mussar movements attempted to create mechanisms by which their followers would be able to overcome these bouts of depression and frustration. Judaism demands that we fortify our spirit with optimism and inner tranquility so that we can gain true happiness with our situation and circumstances. This is no easy task but all of us know that life demands it of us.

Shabbat shalom

Rabbi Berel Wein

 

Saturday, June 15, 2019


The Flavor of Favor

Parshas Naso

Posted on June 17, 2016 (5776) By Rabbi Label Lam | Series: Dvar Torah | Level: Beginner

 

HASHEM spoke to Moses saying: Speak to Aaron and his sons, saying: This is how you shall bless the Children of Israel, saying to them: “May the HASHEM bless you and watch over you. May HASHEM cause His countenance to shine to you and favor you. May the Lord raise His countenance toward you and grant you peace.” (Bamidbar 6:22-26)

and favor you: May He grant you favor- Rashi

Amongst the many blessings showered by the Holy Kohanim upon the People of Israel and favor you: May He grant you favors the granting of something called –“Chen”- favor! How does one merit this Divine favor? “And Noach found favor in the eyes of HASHEM” – the Torah tells us. What did he do to attract or be deserving of such favor. Obviously, it’s a gift, a Heavenly gift at that, and it’s not something that just anyone command or control. Yet there are factors that might make one an antenna for such a beautiful blessing.

The Chovos HaLevavos in Shaar Bechina describes an odd phenomenon that is universally experienced. He speaks of the wonder that the Almighty made it so that an infant is perceived as cute and adorable by adults. In particular, the mother finds the child so attractive and charming that she is willing to give away her sleep and her food and her health to be constantly attentive to the child. To the extent that the child is helpless, to that degree people, especially young girls find that toothless, hairless, inarticulate creature beautiful.

As the child becomes more able to care for its own needs the less it is reliant on help from others, to that extent it is much less attractive and the amount of favor it finds decreases. After a while, if a person is not cleaning and clothing and earning his keep, people will become disgusted and they will find just the opposite of favor. Why is that so? People have a Divine instinct to help the helpless. It appeals to the deep natural good within us. However, that is only if a person is doing all in his power to help himself.

The helplessness must necessarily be accompanied by an innocence and pure vulnerability. Perhaps for that reason an orphan is often the beneficiary of the attitude of favor.

The following story is recorded in the biography of a giant of a man Rabbi Eliezer Geldzahler, who died tragically as a young man. His daughter writes the following:

 

Sometime after Reb Leizer’s petirah, his daughter was driving on the Garden State Parkway. She stopped for gas and noticed that the attendant was a midget. As he began to wash her windows, he caught sight of a large picture on the passenger seat. He became visibly excited as he pointed to it. “How do you know that man?” he asked in a state of agitation. “I’ve been looking for him for more than two years. Where is he?”

 The girl gently informed him that the man in the portrait was her father and that he had passed away from injuries sustained during a bus accident. The fellow stared at her, disbelieving, and then began to cry silently. “You know,” he said, “I do this job day after day, morning after freezing morning. There aren’t many jobs available to someone like me. Cars pull in here every few moments, but everyone averts their eyes, feeling uncomfortable with my strange appearance.

 “Then, one day, your father pulled in. He looked me straight in the eye, like no one else had ever done. ‘My friend,’ he said to me, ‘you are an inspiration. You were born with what might appear as a great handicap, but you refuse to play the role of the victim. You get up in the morning, go to work, and earn an honest living.

You are a role model for all of us. You teach us that circumstances should not dictate the terms of our existence.’ “‘I am on my way to New York, where I am the head of a large school. Today, I am going to tell my students all about you so that they might learn from your example.’” With his eyes glistening, the gas station attendant completed his tale. “Of course, I so looked forward to seeing your father. He made me feel tall.”

This may just be the biggest hint and the most effective way to find that ever elusive gift. Shower others with the authentic experience that you so desperately seek. By emulating HASHEM, as the Kohanim do, by blessing others, you too may attract the flavor of favor.

 

Pennies From Heaven

Parshas Naso

Posted on June 12, 2019 (5779) By Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky | Series: Drasha | Level: Beginner

 

The portion of Naso contains phrases that are said every day by every congregation in the world. In the Diaspora they are incorporated in the repetition of the Shemone Esrai, the (morning) standing prayer, and in Israel the kohanim themselves, the priests, recite them each morning as they bless the nation: Birkas Kohanim, the priestly blessings. In this week’s portion Hashem instructed the kohanim to bless the people: “Thus shall you bless the nation of Israel, speak unto them. May Hashem bless you and safeguard you. May He illuminate His countenance upon you and let you find grace. May He lift His countenance upon you and establish peace for you.” (Numbers 6:22-26)

It seems that we ask for more than blessing. Why is each one of the blessings followed with its practical implication? Bless us… and safeguard us. Illuminate us … and let us find favor in the eyes of others. Lift countenance.. and establish peace for us. Is it not enough to be blessed and have the illumination of his countenance? What is the necessity of the second half of each blessing?

Noted attorney Robert Harris, Esq. of Woodmere, told me a wonderful story:
A man once pleaded with the Al-mighty to bestow a bit of His abundance upon him. He implored and begged his Creator for long life and wealth. After all, the poor soul figured, G-d had an abundance of everything; why then, wouldn’t He spare something for a Jew in need. He entered a huge, empty synagogue on the Lower East Side and began to cry.

“Ribono Shel Olam (Master of the universe),” he cried “in the great extent of Your eternity what is a million years?”

The man began to tremble. He imagined that he actually heard a response.

“To Me a million years is just a mere second!” boomed a voice inside his mind.

The man continued. “And,” he pleaded, “to the magnitude of Your great bounty, what, may I ask, is a billion dollars?”

“A billion dollars is just a mere penny,” came the resonating reply.

“Then,” begged the man, “can I not have just one of your pennies?”

“Surely!” came the response. And then a pause. “But you must wait a mere second!”

It is not enough to get a blessing from Hashem. It must be given with the assurance that it will have a practical implication. Many people receive blessings of wealth and health only to lose them to thieves and aggravation. Each of the priestly blessings is followed by a safeguard – a follow up. A blessing of wealth alone is not enough. Hashem must guard it. Illuminating us with His countenance is not enough. Unless fellow humans appreciate the grace that G-d has given the Jews, in this very corporeal world, it is a worthless gift. And of course, even if He lifts his countenance upon us we still need the blessings of shalom – peace.

The Torah also teaches us that blessing others must be done with a full heart and full hand. To bestow generosity on others must include a vehicle to appreciate the bounty. Otherwise you have given the gift of a billion dollars – in a million years. We may give blessings to our fellow Jews, but the greatest blessings we receive and give are those that we can use – immediately and forever.

Good Shabbos!

Rabbi Mordecai Kamenetzky

Dedicated in memory of Irving I. Adelsberg by the Adelsberg Family

 

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Saturday, June 8, 2019


Unique Appreciations and Accomplishments

Parshas Bamidbar

Posted on May 23, 2014 (5774) By Rabbi Label Lam | Series: Dvar Torah | Level: Beginner

 

HASHEM spoke to Moses and Aaron saying: The Children of Israel shall encamp, each man by his division, with the flag staffs of their fathers’ house; some distance from the Tent of Meeting they shall encamp. (Bamidbar 2:1)

With the flag staffs: Every division shall have its own flag staff, with a colored flag hanging on it; the color of one being different from the color of any other. (Rashi)

Every division shall have its own flag staff, with a colored flag hanging on it; the color of one being different from the color of any other.Every division shall have its own flag staff, with a colored flag hanging on it; the color of one being different from the color of any other. Every division shall have its own flag staff, with a colored flag hanging on it; the color of one being different from the color of any other.Here is the ideal formation of all the tribes as they are configured by HASHEM in the desert. Every individual was included as part of a group that had its own distinct flag and color according to their family. Hmmmm! What current lesson can we glean from this ancient mandate?

Every family and individual is gifted with different strengths and challenges. Therefore even if everyone is keeping the same Shabbos Holy, the flavor of their table and every person around that table also varies. How can that personal touch be emphasized and encouraged?

Here are a few activities that have worked wonderfully at our Shabbos table almost every week and we do not get bored. On Friday nights we go around the table with the same question. “What did you do this week that gave you the greatest feeling of accomplishment?” At first when we started this, admittedly, people wanted to run away rather than answer. Now, they can’t wait for their chance. Somebody got up early and studied. Someone helped a friend. One week we had three guests and one said he had a nice conversation with his mother. Another said all of Tehillim each day and another made it twice to Shacharis that week. One of our children got an 80% on a math test, claiming it was hard for her and she thought she would fail. One washed a large pile of dishes in preparation for Shabbos. Somebody forgave a friend and somebody else ignored an insult. Every pronouncement is met by a bouncy song to applaud and highlight the feeling of accomplishment.

We came to realize a few important and personal truths in this pastime. People usually feel good about doing something that was hard for them to do or something they did for someone else. Each person reveals a small part of their personal struggle in declaring their individual victory. They learn over time to look forward to doing challenging things and feeling better later and they learn how to reward themselves and feel good about things that are unique to their situation rather than to aim only for generic goals that general society gives recognition to. These discussions can last quite a long time and everyone feels heard and rewarded in the process.

On Shabbos day we play”The Gratitude Game”. Rather than lecture about being grateful and feeling good about what we have, we play a fun game. I start, “I am grateful for something that starts with the letter “G”” (for example). Suddenly people start to guess items and categories that zero in on thing I have in my mind. Whoever gets it has the chance to state, “I am grateful for something that starts with the letter…”

Everyone should be ready with something that they feel grateful for and turns can be shared or given away to help include those who feel left out or overmatched. Eventually, people of all ages are getting into it. It makes the Shabbat table a fun and interesting place to be, besides quietly teaching us to feel good about the details in our lives.

The combo of these two activities helps us reflect on the two important questions: 1) What are we doing to improve our state of being? 2) How grateful are we for what HASHEM is doing for us?

No two weeks or discussions are ever the same and even if all families in the Jewish Nation would do the same activities at their Shabbos table, no two would ever be exactly alike. Each family and person has their own special flavor -flag and that represents their individual tastes and challenges and their unique appreciations and accomplishments.

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Saturday, June 1, 2019


A Separate Peace

Parshas Bechukosai

Posted on May 29, 2019 (5779) By Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky | Series: Drasha | Level: Beginner

 “If you will walk in my statutes, and heed my commandments …” (Leviticus 33:3).

This week the Torah bestows its promise of blessing and peace to those who follow in the path of Torah. Rashi is bothered by the seeming redundancy of walking in statutes, and heeding commands. He explains that “walk in my statutes” refers to arduous Torah study, and “heed my commandments” refers to keeping the mitzvos.

And then there is peace. Hashem promises that if we adhere to the directives, “I will bring peace to the land” (ibid v. 6) In the same verse, the Torah also tells us that “a sword will not pass through your land.” If there is peace, then obviously a sword will not pass through. What is the meaning of the redundancy? Once again, Rashi explains that the “sword passing through” is referring to a sword that is not directed against our people; rather it is a sword that is passing through on the way to another country. Thus the two types of peace.

But maybe there is a different type of peace; one that does not refer to guns and ammunition, but rather to a peace that is on another level.

Rav Yitzchak Zilberstein of B’nei Berak tells the story of Rav Eliezer Shach, the Ponovezer Rosh Yeshiva, of blessed memory.

Rav Shach once entered a shul and sat down in a seat towards the back, and, while waiting for the minyan to begin, Rav Shach began to study Torah. Suddenly a man approached him, hands on his hips, and began shouting at him.

“Don’t you know that you are sitting in my seat?” the irate man yelled.

“Who are you to come here and just sit down, without asking anyone permission?”

Rav Shach quickly stood up and embraced the man. He hugged him lovingly as he begged the man for forgiveness. He agreed to the irate man’s every point.

“I am so sorry for taking your seat even if it was for a few moments,” he pleaded. Please forgive me. I must have absent-mindedly sat down there. Please forgive me.

The man was taken aback at the Rosh Yeshiva’s humility, and immediately apologized for his rude behavior.

“After the davening, students of Rav Shach approached him and asked why he so readily accepted blame and begged forgiveness for what surely was not a misdeed. After all, why should he not be able to sit down in the seat. Rav Shach explained, “If Torah is all that one aspires to have, then everything else in this world, all the items one would normally squabble about has no significance. When one is immersed in Torah, a seat is meaningless, a place is meaningless. Surely a material object is not worth getting upset over, surely no less tare they worth fighting over. Why shouldn’t I apologize?”

The Torah tells us a secret to peace in our community. If we toil in Torah, there will be peace in the land. The Torah is telling us that if we immerse ourselves in Torah then all the temporal objects that are the fulcrum of most fights are meaningless.

We think of peace as a concept that occurs between nations. However, we often forget that what we need is peace within our own community. A separate peace.

Good Shabbos

Dedicated in memory of Rabbi Dr. Menashe Refael (Manfred) Lehmann of blessed memory.



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