Saturday, August 29, 2020
The idea of the necessity of a fence on one’s roof and exposed staircases and high landings is a very logical and realistic one. The Torah itself advances this simple reasoning by stating that otherwise one may fall from that exposed area with painful if not tragic consequences. However halacha and practicality indicate that not everyone is obligated in this mitzvah and that there are physical instances where such a fence is impossible to construct or is even unnecessary.
Nevertheless, the moral imperative that drives the mitzvah seems to be omnipresent and always operative. A house, a home, a family always needs to be protected, both physically and morally. Just as negligence in failing to erect a fence around one’s exposed roof is a cause for monetary and even criminal liability, so too negligence in failing to construct the moral fence to protect our home and family from the ravages of a rather depraved society is seen to be a serious transgression.
In raising children, as well as in governing society generally, there can be no doubt that fences have to be fashioned and protected. The rub always is as to how many fences and where they are to be placed and how high the actual fence should be. When it comes to the issue of the physical fences around our rooftops, halacha answers all of these questions for us. But when the issue is regarding the moral fence that we must construct for our family and ourselves, there we find minimal guidance.
Just as every physical fence must be constructed to conform to the dimensions of the roof it protects – a circular fence will not completely protect a rectangular roof – so too there is no one-size-fits-all moral fence that is appropriate for every home and family. Tragically, in today’s Jewish world, there are many homes that have no moral fence at all protecting the house and family.
Everyone is allowed, if not even encouraged, to live a life without limits, restraints or moral discipline. And at the other end of the spectrum of Jewish society there are homes where the fence has been constructed too high and is too constrictive as to impede and prevent healthy individual development and constructive discovery and innovation. It is therefore obvious that knowing where, when and how to create this moral fence that will safeguard the Jewish home is the main challenge of parenting and family dynamics.
The Torah in this week’s parsha speaks of ben sorer u’moreh – a rebellious, undisciplined youth – who will grow to be a very destructive force in society. Such a child in most cases represents the failure in the family in erecting and enforcing the proper moral fence in the house. That negligence of safeguarding the home spiritually, emotionally and morally will invariably come back to haunt that family and all society generally.
There are no magical ways to build these necessary fences. Every family and home is different and unique and there is only the common necessity for all families to erect the proper and fitting fences within their home and family. Patience, wisdom, restraint and prayer are key ingredients in accomplishing this vital task.
Shabat shalom,
Rabbi Berel Wein Rabbi Berel Wein- Jewish historian, author and international lecturer offers a complete selection of CDs, audio tapes, video tapes, DVDs, and books on Jewish history at www.rabbiwein.com
Saturday, August 22, 2020
Bias in Belarus • Torah.org
Posted on
September 6, 2019 (5779) By Mordechai Dixler | Series: Lifeline |
Level:
The laws of Kosher slaughter are complex and demanding, and
typically only someone with the necessary training and piety can become a Shochet, trusted to provide Kosher meat
for a community. During the days of
the saintly Rabbi Yozel Horowitz zt”l (also known as the Alter of Novardok), he
and his congregation relied upon a Shochet known for his proficiency and fear of Heaven.
Someone,
we’ll call him Isaac, came to Rabbi Horowitz one day, complaining that
the Shochet was
really not as pious as people thought — and that he should be replaced with
someone more trustworthy. Knowing that Isaac had personal biases against
the Shochet, Rabbi
Horowitz said, “I don’t believe your accusations, but since you don’t trust the Shochet, you should certainly stop eating his meat.” Isaac
immediately responded, “My intention was not that people shouldn’t eat his
meat. I was merely saying that we
should find someone better!”
Rabbi Horowitz learned from this incident how far personal
bias can go. Isaac claimed that he wanted to protect the community from eating
non-Kosher meat, so much so that he was willing to get the Shochet fired. But once he feared that he personally — and he alone
— would be denied the pleasure of eating meat, he quickly changed his tune.
Our Torah portion this week (Deut. 16:19) warns even a wise
judge, a religious scholar and expert in G-d’s Torah law, not to take bribes —
“for bribery blinds the eyes of the wise.” A sharp mind and righteous deeds are
no match for the influence of ulterior motives.
If the wise and knowledgeable can be persuaded to abandon
their better judgement, it is obvious that we cannot assume we are any better.
Thus, it is imperative on all of us to examine our inner motives if we hope to
find truth. A person must study Torah not to
justify previous beliefs or even to appear wise, but only in order to
know what G-d is telling us. Then, with rigorous dedication to honesty and
without bias, we can hope to best understand the path we should follow.
Weighing In • Torah.org
Posted on September 5, 2019
(5779) By Rabbi Raymond Beyda | Series: Table
Talk | Level:
“You shall appoint judges and police in all
of your gates, and they will judge the people a righteous judgment.”
Our Parasha begins with instructions to the people of Israel
to set up a judicial system in all of
their cities and with an admonition to judges to judge their cases fairly. Our
Sages teach that all of the Torah
portions that we read in the days between Rosh Hodesh Elul and Yom Kippur
contain allusions to the battle with the evil inclination, the Teshubah process
and character improvement — all the elements necessary for a successful trial on
Rosh Hashanah.
The Kli Yakar points out that the verse says, “you shall
appoint judges for yourself [Lecha] “–indicating that one should judge himself
or herself before they point a finger at others. Check your character and
behavior, fix your faults and only then can you judge others fairly. “Appoint judges for yourself” and
then you will certainly “judge the people a fair judgment”
Others say that the word “lecha”– “for you” advises one to
treat others as they would treat themselves. One should not be strict with
others and lenient when it comes to themselves. Rabbi Simha Bunim from
Peshischa says that when one is constantly evaluating their own behavior and
they realize that they are not perfect then it will certainly lead them to see
the strong points in someone else. In other words, the verse is telling us that
when you “appoint judges for yourself” then certainly you will “judge the
people fairly”.
The Shelah HaKadosh sees in this instruction a command to
control what goes in and out of your “gates”.
A person has eyes, ears, a mouth and nose. To reach spiritual
perfection on must set judges and policemen at all of your gates. Should we all
exercise caution and monitor carefully
what goes in and out of our physical “gates” i.e. what we look at, what
we say and what we listen to then we can all be assured of “righteous judgment”
on that crucial day Rosh Hashanah.
May we all take advantages of this special period of grace
and favor called Elul and concentrate on self improvement and forgiveness so
that G-d will also only see good when He
judges every individual, every community and every country on this Rosh
Hashanah for life filled with blessing and happiness Amen.
ANOTHER LESSON
FROM THE PARASHA
You should prepare the way …that every murderer shall flee there. [Debarim 19:3]
The Torah laws about the treatment of an accidental
murderer are unique in the world.
Man-made law could never imagine the parameters set by our
Holy Book in regard to the perpetrator of the death of another. The killer is
advised to flee to a city of refuge wherein
the relatives are not permitted to kill him in revenge for the death of
their loved one. If the murderer fails to enter a refuge city before a relative
can catch him then the pursuer may kill
the killer. The Torah commands the people of Israel to set signposts along the
roads that indicate the safe haven to
the fleeing killer. Rab Hamma bar Hanina said: “If for the wicked Hashem shows
the path to a refuge from harm, then certainly He does so for the righteous.”
Anyone traveling the roads of the Holy Land in the times of the Sanhedrin could see the many directional signs that
filled the roads. Where are the signs that
Hashem provides for us in our generation?
Halakha means
law but it also means the way to walk. If anyone has a question about which way to proceed in almost any life
situation one should consult the Halakha. When Yaakob Abinu a’h fell asleep on
the Temple Mount he had a prophetic dream that revealed to him the destiny of
himself and his offspring throughout history. When he awoke and realized the
holy nature of the place where he had slept he exclaimed,” Had I known, I would not have slept in such a holy place.” The import of this statement
to all Jews at all
times is that
Yaakob our Patriarch was willing to forego an essential prophetic message
and a promise from Hashem to protect him
wherever he would travel in his personal exile and to protect his children throughout their
future exiles — if it meant he had to violate the sanctity of the Temple Mount
by sleeping there. If the Halakha forbids sleeping in that holy place — so be
it. Yaakob Abinu would have found another place to rest.
In every person’s life there are crossroads. Points where
decisions that are crucial to success
or failure in career, marriage, physical health and spiritual growth must be
made. Where should one turn? What direction should one take? Look for the road
signs provided by our Heavenly Father.
Check with an authority what the Halakha dictates in your personal situation and follow the sign to
success. Life’s roads are very confusing and each person has difficulties that
may lead him or her down the wrong path to a dead end or h’v to disaster. By following the Halakha one is
assured that the path will lead to the end that is best under the circumstances.
Shabbat Shalom
Text Copyright © 2003 Rabbi
Raymond Beyda and Project
Genesis, Inc.
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Curbing Corruption
Posted on
September 4, 2019 (5779) By Rabbi Berel Wein | Series: Rabbi
Wein | Level: Beginner The reading of this week deals with a basic
human temptation and almost universal failing – corruption. Though the Torah speaks of actual physical and
financial graft it certainly implies a broader message to not only to those in
the judiciary but to others in positions of power. The Torah recognizes that
human beings, by their very nature, have biases and prejudices. Some of these
seem to be almost inborn while others are acquired because of life experiences, educational instruction and
societal norms. Students of human nature have long debated which traits are
inborn, such as hatreds and prejudices, and which are learned and acquired in
life. As you can imagine, there is no consensus on this issue and on many other
questions regarding human behavior. It is obvious that the Torah recognizes the
presence of prejudice and corruption, both willingly and unknowingly within all
of us. Even the greatest of us, who possess G-dly wisdom and holiness in
behavior and speech, is also subject to being corrupted. Wisdom can be
perverted, and speech can be twisted because of our innate susceptibility to
corruption. We are not provided with any magic method to avoid this
problem. We only know that it exists and that it is universal and omnipresent.
As such, perhaps simply being aware of its existence eventually leads human beings
individually and human society generally to a willingness to deal with the
matter and to correct it to the extent that human beings are able. We are all aware that that when it comes to physical health
and mental well-being, the first act is to identify and be aware of the problem
that is involved. The same thing is true in all human emotional and spiritual
difficulties. People tend to believe that,
somehow, they are immune to corruption if they do not actually take money
offered to influence their opinions and judgments. However, that is a very
simplistic view of corruption. Since people feel that they are balanced and
fair in their opinions and viewpoints, this is exactly what leads to
prejudices, intolerance of others and a closed mind when it comes to deciding on
important issues and personal matters. One of the reasons the Talmud insisted that at least three
people be present to judge in a Jewish court of law is that when you have three
people you will automatically hear
different points of view and a fairer result will emerge. There are
exceptional cases where even one judge – and that judge must be a true expert
on the law and facts involved – will suffice, but the practice in Jewish courts
throughout the ages has been to have more than one judge – at least three –
involved in arriving at judicial decisions. The Torah demanded that we pursue
justice and fairness at all costs. It does not guarantee that we will always be
able to achieve that goal, but it does demand that we constantly pursue it. Shabbat shalom
Rabbi Berel Wein
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Saturday, August 15, 2020


The Meat of the Matter
Posted on August
13, 2020 (5780) By Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky | Series: Drasha |
Level: Beginner
In this week’s portion, the Torah allows us to partake in our
material desires, but only according to Torah proscriptions. The Torah clearly
allows the consumption of meat, albeit with a few caveats. The Torah states “If
the place that Hashem, your God, will choose to
place His Name will be far from you, you may slaughter from your cattle
and your flocks that Hashem has given
you, as I have commanded you, and you may eat in your cities according to your
heart’s entire desire. Even as the deer and the ayal are eaten, so may you eat
it, the contaminated one and the pure one may eat it together: Only be strong
not to eat the blood — for the blood, it is the nefesh — and you shall not eat
the nefesh with the meat” (Deuteronomy 12:21-23).
Nefesh has various meanings, simply stated it is the life
force of the animal — perhaps what we would call “the soul of the matter.”
Clearly, the consumption of blood is a despicable act in the Torah view (a fact
conveniently overlooked by the centuries of libelers who had us drinking,
mixing, baking and cooking with it.) In addition, the process of extricating
all blood from the animal is clearly and
intricately defined through the Talmud and Shulchan Aruch. However, delineating
the prohibition as one of combining the consumption of the nefesh with the meat surely goes beyond the prohibition of eating or drinking blood.
Surely there is a deeper connotation to the prohibition of
the strange concoction of nefesh and meat.
Rav Yehuda Laib Chasman was considered to be one of
the luminaries of the mussar movement. Before he immersed himself completely in
the world of Torah and mussar, he had a business that sold flour to bakers. He
would devote a portion of his day to his
business and the remaining time he would spend at the famed Talmud Torah of
Kelm under the tutelage of Rabbi Simcha Zissel Ziv, the illustrious Alter of
Kelm. One day on the way into the Yeshiva, Rav Ziv called Reb Yehuda Laib over
to the side and pointed to the white powder that covered the sleeve of his
jacket. Rabbi Chasman took this observation to be a clear moralistic evaluation.
“Rabbi Ziv is
pointing out that the flour is becoming part of me. If it is already all over
my garments, and it is still with me when I leave my store, then it has become
too much a part of me.”
With that, he
made a personal decision that changed his life completely. He returned home,
and figured out together with his wife that the amount of their current assets
would more than cover any outstanding debts and allow them to sustain
themselves. They sold the business, and
Rabbi Chasman enrolled full-time at the Volozhiner Yeshiva, eventually emerging
the great luminary whom we all revere.
Some of us like meat: whether it is the actual beef or the
proverbial materialistic affairs in which we indulge. And that’s OK to a point.
After all, we are only human.
But the Torah tells us to be careful to separate the soul
from the meat. The holy from the mundane. It wants us to understand that other
than the quest for the prime rib, which we wish to consume, there are more
noble pursuits that should consume us. Therefore, the Torah tells us to clearly
delineate the difference and tells us that although we may indulge in worldly pleasure we should be careful not
to allow the soul to become devoured with the meat. Thus, it clearly commands,
“Do not eat the nefesh with the meat.” A good meal is totally permissible. It
even lifts the spirit. However, materialistic indulgences as such should surely never become our obsession or
sole desire. For then, it will become part of
our nefesh. It will become tantamount to our soul desire.
Good Shabbos
Dedicated in memory of R’ Yitzchak ben R’ Meir Thurm
by Dr. and Mrs. Myron Thurm and family.

Copyright © 2002 by Rabbi M. Kamenetzky and Project Genesis, Inc.
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which is sponsored by The Henry and Myrtle Hirsch Foundation

The Tree of Knowledge
Posted on July
29, 2013 (5773) By Rabbi Naftali Reich | Series: Legacy |
Level: Beginner
Since the dawn of human history, mankind has faced, in one
guise or another, the same temptations that confronted the very first man and
woman, Adam and Chava. After giving us
the details of their creation, the Torah describes the challenge they faced in
the blissful spiritual existence Hashem provided for them in the Garden of
Eden. They were expressly prohibited to eat from the eitz hadaas, the tree of
knowledge, yet its delightful fruit proved irresistible to Eve. The Torah
describes the nature of the temptation. “It was desirable to be eaten and
beautiful to behold”! The challenge Adam and Chava faced echoes and re-echoes
as each and every generation confronts its unique ‘eitz hadaas’ in an
ever-changing and often bewildering
variation of guises.
Our generation has its own enticing ‘tree of knowledge’ that
glistens alluringly, urging us to sample its illicit fruits. Its appeal has
tragically proven irresistible to so many of our youth. Can they be blamed for
surrendering to the tantalizing attraction? Religious rules seem so onerous,
rigid and inhibiting to a generation that has been nurtured with an inherent
sense of personal entitlement. Don’t we deserve it, and don’t we deserve it
now? Freedom of expression and freedom of choice have been elevated to the
highest status in society’s scale of values.
How then
are we to protect both ourselves and our children from the shimmering ‘tree of
knowledge’ whose fruits appear ‘so good to eat and so delightful to the eye’?
In the first verse of this week’s Torah portion, Moshe
Rabbeinu in his parting message to the
Jewish people provides them with an eternal answer. “Behold! I have placed
before you today the blessing and the curse. The blessing is that you shall
listen to the words of Hashem your G-d,
and the curse is when you do not hearken to His voice”.
Living in our
Creator’s embrace and following His dictates is defined as a life of blessing.
Living outside its pale is defined as a life of curse. Herein Moshe Rabbeinu
frames the arena of life and articulates
the challenge that we mortals in every age and in every society are forced to
grapple with.
But
how can we imbibe this important message when all our senses and feelings
experience and see just the opposite?
Perhaps we can explain this with a verse in last week’s Torah
portion. (Chapter 10 verse 12): “And now, Israel, what does Hashem your G-d ask
of you? Only to see/fear Him, to walk in all His ways, to love Him and to serve
Him with all your heart and all your soul”. The Talmud questions the word
“only”; is this long list such a simple request? Isn’t it
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The Meat of the Matter
Posted on August
13, 2020 (5780) By Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky | Series: Drasha |
Level: Beginner
In this week’s portion, the Torah allows us to partake in our
material desires, but only according to Torah proscriptions. The Torah clearly
allows the consumption of meat, albeit with a few caveats. The Torah states “If
the place that Hashem, your God, will choose to
place His Name will be far from you, you may slaughter from your cattle
and your flocks that Hashem has given
you, as I have commanded you, and you may eat in your cities according to your
heart’s entire desire. Even as the deer and the ayal are eaten, so may you eat
it, the contaminated one and the pure one may eat it together: Only be strong
not to eat the blood — for the blood, it is the nefesh — and you shall not eat
the nefesh with the meat” (Deuteronomy 12:21-23).
Nefesh has various meanings, simply stated it is the life
force of the animal — perhaps what we would call “the soul of the matter.”
Clearly, the consumption of blood is a despicable act in the Torah view (a fact
conveniently overlooked by the centuries of libelers who had us drinking,
mixing, baking and cooking with it.) In addition, the process of extricating
all blood from the animal is clearly and
intricately defined through the Talmud and Shulchan Aruch. However, delineating
the prohibition as one of combining the consumption of the nefesh with the meat surely goes beyond the prohibition of eating or drinking blood.
Surely there is a deeper connotation to the prohibition of
the strange concoction of nefesh and meat.
Rav Yehuda Laib Chasman was considered to be one of
the luminaries of the mussar movement. Before he immersed himself completely in
the world of Torah and mussar, he had a business that sold flour to bakers. He
would devote a portion of his day to his
business and the remaining time he would spend at the famed Talmud Torah of
Kelm under the tutelage of Rabbi Simcha Zissel Ziv, the illustrious Alter of
Kelm. One day on the way into the Yeshiva, Rav Ziv called Reb Yehuda Laib over
to the side and pointed to the white powder that covered the sleeve of his
jacket. Rabbi Chasman took this observation to be a clear moralistic evaluation.
“Rabbi Ziv is
pointing out that the flour is becoming part of me. If it is already all over
my garments, and it is still with me when I leave my store, then it has become
too much a part of me.”
With that, he
made a personal decision that changed his life completely. He returned home,
and figured out together with his wife that the amount of their current assets
would more than cover any outstanding debts and allow them to sustain
themselves. They sold the business, and
Rabbi Chasman enrolled full-time at the Volozhiner Yeshiva, eventually emerging
the great luminary whom we all revere.
Some of us like meat: whether it is the actual beef or the
proverbial materialistic affairs in which we indulge. And that’s OK to a point.
After all, we are only human.
But the Torah tells us to be careful to separate the soul
from the meat. The holy from the mundane. It wants us to understand that other
than the quest for the prime rib, which we wish to consume, there are more
noble pursuits that should consume us. Therefore, the Torah tells us to clearly
delineate the difference and tells us that although we may indulge in worldly pleasure we should be careful not
to allow the soul to become devoured with the meat. Thus, it clearly commands,
“Do not eat the nefesh with the meat.” A good meal is totally permissible. It
even lifts the spirit. However, materialistic indulgences as such should surely never become our obsession or
sole desire. For then, it will become part of
our nefesh. It will become tantamount to our soul desire.
Good Shabbos
Dedicated in memory of R’ Yitzchak ben R’ Meir Thurm
by Dr. and Mrs. Myron Thurm and family.
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Copyright © 2002 by Rabbi M. Kamenetzky and Project Genesis, Inc.
If you enjoy the
weekly Drasha, now you can receive the best of Drasha in book form! Purchase Parsha
Parables at
a very special price!
The author is the Dean of the Yeshiva of South
Shore.
Drasha is
the e-mail edition of FaxHomily, a weekly torah facsimile on the weekly portion
which is sponsored by The Henry and Myrtle Hirsch Foundation
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The Tree of Knowledge
Posted on July
29, 2013 (5773) By Rabbi Naftali Reich | Series: Legacy |
Level: Beginner
Since the dawn of human history, mankind has faced, in one
guise or another, the same temptations that confronted the very first man and
woman, Adam and Chava. After giving us
the details of their creation, the Torah describes the challenge they faced in
the blissful spiritual existence Hashem provided for them in the Garden of
Eden. They were expressly prohibited to eat from the eitz hadaas, the tree of
knowledge, yet its delightful fruit proved irresistible to Eve. The Torah
describes the nature of the temptation. “It was desirable to be eaten and
beautiful to behold”! The challenge Adam and Chava faced echoes and re-echoes
as each and every generation confronts its unique ‘eitz hadaas’ in an
ever-changing and often bewildering
variation of guises.
Our generation has its own enticing ‘tree of knowledge’ that
glistens alluringly, urging us to sample its illicit fruits. Its appeal has
tragically proven irresistible to so many of our youth. Can they be blamed for
surrendering to the tantalizing attraction? Religious rules seem so onerous,
rigid and inhibiting to a generation that has been nurtured with an inherent
sense of personal entitlement. Don’t we deserve it, and don’t we deserve it
now? Freedom of expression and freedom of choice have been elevated to the
highest status in society’s scale of values.
How then
are we to protect both ourselves and our children from the shimmering ‘tree of
knowledge’ whose fruits appear ‘so good to eat and so delightful to the eye’?
In the first verse of this week’s Torah portion, Moshe
Rabbeinu in his parting message to the
Jewish people provides them with an eternal answer. “Behold! I have placed
before you today the blessing and the curse. The blessing is that you shall
listen to the words of Hashem your G-d,
and the curse is when you do not hearken to His voice”.
Living in our
Creator’s embrace and following His dictates is defined as a life of blessing.
Living outside its pale is defined as a life of curse. Herein Moshe Rabbeinu
frames the arena of life and articulates
the challenge that we mortals in every age and in every society are forced to
grapple with.
But
how can we imbibe this important message when all our senses and feelings
experience and see just the opposite?
Perhaps we can explain this with a verse in last week’s Torah
portion. (Chapter 10 verse 12): “And now, Israel, what does Hashem your G-d ask
of you? Only to see/fear Him, to walk in all His ways, to love Him and to serve
Him with all your heart and all your soul”. The Talmud questions the word
“only”; is this long list such a simple request? Isn’t it
disingenuous to request from us the relatively simple
assignment of seeing and thus fearing Hasher, immediately followed by a string
of complex and challenging spiritual demands?
A doting father and mother were tearfully watching their sick
son’s vitality drain from him as he lay in bed. His temperature continued to
soar. His burning fever robbed him of his appetite; he steadfastly refused the
delicious food they put before him as well as all medicine. All their
exhortations and pleas were futile. They begged a specialist to come to their
home to treat their beloved son. The specialist came and saw that the
child’s prognosis was very serious. He
extracted a strong medicine from his briefcase and told the child that he will
only ask him to swallow the medicine a single time. Hearing that this was only
a one- time request, the child acquiesced and reluctantly sipped a measure of
the life giving elixir. As the doctor walked towards the door, the child’s
mother burst out crying. “Dr.” she exclaimed, “he has only agreed to take it
this one time, what will we do tonight when you’re gone?”
“‘Don’t worry,” the doctor reassured her. “‘Now that he has
drunk from this medicine, his appetite will be restored. Once he begins
ingesting food, he will regain his appreciation for its taste. Before long you
can be assured that he will be willing to take the necessary medicine every day
until he is fully recovered”.
With this parable, the Dubna Maggid explains the meaning of
our verse about the Torah’s expectation: We are asked “only” to “see” and fear
G-d. If we only ‘see and fear’ our Creator
a single time, we will be naturally inclined towards continuing our
pathway towards spiritual growth. We will be primed and ready to see the blessing in living a spiritual
life.
Once we experience the sublime joy of ‘seeing’ Hashem and
having a heart-to-heart dialogue with Him; once we taste the pleasure of a true
Shabbat; once we absorb the self- fulfillment that overtakes every fiber of our
being as we extend ourselves to the less fortunate, we will encounter His
precious blessings. The allure of tree of knowledge’s artificial stimulants
will no longer exert their magnetic draw. At that point, the distinction
between the blessing and the curse will be abundantly clear.
This then, is perhaps what Moshe meant at the beginning of
our Torah portion. Re’eh, ‘see’ that I present you today with a blessing and a
curse. Only after we have seen and
experienced the light and delight of a spiritual life pathway will we be
able to make a crystal clear
distinction in our life choice. How true the maxim that “a little light
banishes a great deal of darkness.” By infusing our homes with a joyous life in
the presence of Hasher, we will ensure that we will always delight in the kosher fruits of our Garden of Eden.
Wishing you
a wonderful Shabbos, Rabbi Naftali Reich
Saturday, August 8, 2020
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Posted on July 31, 2007 (5767) By
Rabbi Chaim Flom | Series: Short Vorts | Level:
“Our parents never had to tell us not to yell at anyone; we
never heard them yell at anyone. Our parents never had to tell us not to speak
loshon hora (slanderous speech); we never heard them speak loshon hora”. This
was part of Sruly Nadoff’s eulogy for Rabbi Binyamin Nadoff.
“I always thought that if G-d would be a person, G-d would
have been Mrs. Nadoff” said a student after Mrs. Nadoff’s funeral.
“You shall… walk in G-d’s ways…” (Divorim 10:12) The Gemara
(Sota 14a) says that this means to emulate G-d’s traits.
Actions speak louder than words !!
Have a great Shabbos !!
Rabbi Chaim Flom
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Letting Go • Torah.org
Posted on August
6, 2020 (5780) By Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky | Series: Drasha |
Level: Beginner
In this week’s portion Moshe talks about what was perhaps the
most traumatic moment of his career. After spending 40 days and nights on the
highest level of spiritual elevation, he returned from Mount Sinai to a scene
that filled him with horror. At the foot of the mountain the Jews were reveling
around a golden calf.
Naturally Moshe was appalled. Here he was, holding the luchos (tablets), a G-d-given immortal
gift, and he faced a nation plunged into an act of idolatry. He smashes the
luchos.
But
if we analyze the narrative there is an interesting word that Moshe inserts as
he describes his actions on that day. “I
descended from the mountain and the two tablet were in my hands. Then I saw and
behold! You had sinned unto G-d; you made yourselves a molten calf. So I
grasped the two luchos and I threw them from my two hands and smashed them in
front of your eyes” (Deuteronomy 9:15-17).
Moshe was holding the tablets when descending the mountain.
Why did he clutch them before throwing them from his hands? Weren’t they
already in his hands?
Shouldn’t
the verse tell us “Then I saw and behold!
You had sinned and you made yourselves a molten calf. So I threw the tablets
from my two hands and smashed them in front of your eyes.” Why, and in
what way did he grasp them?
A friend of mine told me a story about his great grandfather,
a brilliant sage and revered tzadik. Whenever he saw one of his children commit
an action that was harmful to their physical or spiritual well-being he would
stop them. But this sage knew that stopping a child is not enough. The
youngster would need a punishment too, whether it be potch (Yiddish for slap),
reprimand, lecture, or the withholding of privileges.
But when a potch or harsh rebuke was due, the rabbi would not
give it immediately. He would jot the transgression down in a small notebook
and at the end of the week he would approach the young offender. After giving
the child a hug and embrace, he reminded the child of the incident and
explained to the child that his actions were wrong.
“I should have punished you immediately when I saw you commit
your act,” he would say, “but honestly, I was angry then, and my punishment may
have been one spurred by anger, not admonition. Now, however, that occurrence
is in the past and I am calm. Now I can mete your punishment with a clear head.
And you will know that it is given from love, not anger.”
He then proceeded to punish the child in a way that fit the
misdeed. Moshe was upset. But he did not want to throw the luchos down in rage.
He therefore grabbed them and held them tight before hurling them. Moshe, in
his narrative tells us that he seized the luchos before breaking them. He
wanted to send a clear message to the revelers below. That the mussar (ethical reprimand) that he was
affording with this action was not born out of irrational behavior or in anger.
Before smashing the luchos Moshe embraced them, just as a
father hugging a child that he would soon admonish. Because Moshe wanted to
tell us that before we let loose, we have to hold tight.
Good Shabbos!
Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky
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Posted on August
2, 2018 (5778) By Rabbi Mordechai Kamenetzky | Series: Drasha |
Level: Beginner
Not often
does G-d Almighty tell anybody to leave him alone. But then again, Moshe isn’t
everybody.
This week, Moshe recounts the sad tale of the Golden Calf.
Moshe had promised to return from Mount Sinai after receiving the Torah in
forty days, but the Jews miscalculated.
According to their calculations, he was late. Fearing that
Moshe would never return from his
celestial mission, the Jews made themselves a golden calf and worshipped it
while proclaiming, “this is our god that took us out of Egypt.” Obviously, the
calculations and miscalculations of the Jewish People are not as simple as they
appear on the surface. That, however is an entirely different issue.
I’d like to focus in on the aftermath of the calamity of the
Golden Calf. Hashem actually wanted to destroy the Jewish Nation and rebuild a
new folk with Moshe, as its patriarchal leader. “Release me,” said G-d, “and I
will destroy them and build a new nation from you”
(Deuteronomy 9:14)). Immediately after the words, “release
me” Moshe sprung into action. In the Book of Exodus, it details how Moshe
pleaded, cajoled, and reasoned with Hashem with a multitude of persuasive
arguments that calmed His wrath. The Jews were spared.
What is troubling is Moshe’s chutzpah. Didn’t Hashem
specifically tell him, “leave me alone”? What prompted him with the audacity to
defy a direct command of Hashem?
Herbert
Tenzer served as a distinguished congressman from New York in the 1960s. More
importantly, he was an observant Jew who was a proud activist and was
instrumental in providing relief for many Holocaust survivors. A few months
before his passing, some years ago, he related to me the following story:
The energetic and often outspoken Rabbi Eliezer Silver
of Cincinnati, Ohio
was a prominent force in the Vaad
Hatzallah Rescue Committee. He worked tirelessly throughout the terrible war years and their aftermath to save and place the victims of Nazi depravity.
In
addition to his prominence in the Jewish world, Rabbi Silver enjoyed a personal
relationship with the very powerful Senator Robert Taft of Ohio.
Rabbi Silver had a very difficult request that needed much
political pressure and persuasion to accomplish. He asked Mr. Tenzer to accompany
him to the Senator.
“Shenator Taft!” he exclaimed, mixing his distinct accent in
which the s would sound as sh, with a high pitched intoning of emotions. I have
a very important and difficult requesht!”
Rabbi Silver went on to plead his case of obtaining a certain
number of visas for some refugees who may not have met all the criteria.
Senator Taft looked nonchalant and non- committal. The Senator thought for a
while then grimaced. He slowly and carefully
stretched his response. “It would be arduous and burdensome,”
he began. “but technically,” he continued, implying all
the while that he was not the least bit anxious to get his hands dirty, ” it
can be done.”
But Rabbi Silver did not hear anything except the last three
words.
“IT CAN BE DONE?” He shouted with joy. “SHO DO IT!” Needless
to say the stunned Senator got to work immediately and obtained the visas for
the beleaguered Jews.
Moshe heard one line from Hashem, “leave me alone, and I will
destroy them.” That was his cue. The
Talmud in Berachos explains that hearing those words, Moshe knew that now it all depended on him. The only way Hashem
would destroy His people was if Moshe left him alone. And he didn’t. Moshe
badgered, cajoled, and pleaded with the Almighty and we were spared.
My Rebbe once quoted legendary slugger Ted Williams, the last
player to achieve a batting average of over .400. “Every player gets one pitch
that he definitely can hit. To hit .400, don’t miss that pitch.” Instead of
recoiling at the words “release me” or “leave me be,” Moshe saw his pitch. And
he hit it awfully hard.
In life there are many cues. This week Moshe teaches his
nation that when you get your cue, don’t miss it. Even if it takes a little
chutzpah.
Dedicated by B. David &
Shani Schreiber in memory of Naomi BasSheva Bas Rav Boruch Yosef of blessed
memory
Good Shabbos!
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